Funny how Anastasia has no such fears. I think that the children can learn a great deal from witnessing this sort of behavior. I hope to fellowship with you! It will be your spanking tissue. You may find it difficult to cause your wife pain, but as a woman she needs the release of guilt that this form of punishment brings. So I say all this to say yes you can bring your grievances and concerns to your husband in a respectful way but always remember in doing so that you are not his mother and authority, you are his wife — one who is under his authority. They have a great marriage. It is rather unfortunate that family values in our society have broken down but the culture teaches you to just live for self and that is the root cause of rebellion and conflict in many of the homes which eventually lead to break up.
This principle also applied to a wife being physically abused by her husband. We have racists and misogynists genetics and Bible thumpers works that have turned the Bible right back on its head like the Pharisees. Iin my house we have both husband spanking and wife spanking — often just for erotic purposes — ajways just with the hand. Finally I took him into the next room, made him drop his pants and panties and used a paddle on him. He told me that I had to stand there for 30 minutes and think about my bad behavior.
That will not be true submission or true love. Speaking from a childs 19 point of view I think it is important. Its personal rather than legalism. From knowing that he likes mayo on both sides of the bread on his sandwiches to what he likes in bed. The downward thrust of the strop scorches each cheek vertically from the cheeks to the thighs. To be hones r even though I never said anything I was upset.
I do not understand how anyone could justify the excerpts that Marciebaby posted. Specifically when it comes to a parent disciplining their children or husband disciplining his wife - it seems there has been a lot of talk about both and I'm curious what different denominations and the Bible has to say on the topic. It just seems sad that this woman's husband, who displays at least some sense of responsibility vis a vis the issue of family discipline, doesn't seemed to have found time to impart very much Scriptural knowledge to his household. So should we not teach our daughters the tools to find the right person and to avoid the pitfalls of being attracted to the wrong person + our sons to be stronger without being arrogant and domineering instead of becoming shy men or mammy's boys, as otherwise they will grow up having a lot of problems leading or being submissive to their partner with painfull breakups, divorce or lonelyness. A handy substitute is a 24-inch wood ruler. These are just a few of those passages.
So for instance if a husband were physically abusing his wife and children his wife or his children could report him to the proper civil authorities and perhaps even church authorities for discipline. Let's see: - He that spareth his rod hateth his son: but he that loveth him chasteneth him betimes. I began to think I was a lesbian. The same day she gave me all the rules of the house and from that day she control´d me and the house. I agree this is normal and happens in a lot of relationships. On the issue of sex I think even those of us who believe a woman should not say no to her husband recognize that he should be considerate of her as well.
Guess I do need glasses. I am divorced now but once I had accumulated some bills he did not know about. It exists primarily so that they may tell their stories, and find compassion and advice. I am honored to follow him. Treat others as you want to be treated is a common thing i hear said. I never asked to do this and I never would — this is my preference.
The Scriptures offer very explicit guidelines for determining who qualifies for discipline and how the process must be worked out. Or sand in the swimsuit. However, if this is new for you, it will take some practice. Liked by I forgot to mention in the above, that after we had been married for about 2 years, we went over to my parents house and I said something that wasnt exactly politically correct. So, if someone loves their wife, why would they sin by hitting her, even under the guise of discipline? Now that he is helpless start to spank him with the hair brush or spoon, alternating cheeks. In response to another recent comment, I agree emphatically that no statement is valid that purports to apply to all women, or all humans, or all marriages.
A good muslim husband is a good provider and protector of his wife and in return for that responsibility is granted a dominant role, which includes the right to use corporal punishment on his wife, but only if she deserves it and if the punishment does not injure her or leave permanent marks. I have waited in a marriage where my husband refused all responsibilities in rearing the children. She is the one who deserves to be punished, not them. The only way we he would know what to do is to pray, seek wise counsel and listen to the Holy Spirit. I becane so angry that I went to the loan company and slammed the lady onto the counter! He will tell you anything to get you to stop.