If your comfort is a priority then do her a favour and bail out now. We have all done everything we can think of to stop them from leaving or bring them back. All of this is easier said than done of course : Thanks again, Joel Hey Joel, I really hope that things work out. This is special, and although it may sound strange… congratulations to each of you for your compassion and empathy. I have tried to be patient and understanding and I have to admit it has been difficult, but I really do want us to be happy together.
Most likely the Psych didn't say that because they thought of it on their own. We are humans after all. She has been depressed for a really long time now and it got into such a bad state that she says the relationship was too draining. She thanked me for that. Its asif we hate each other. You made me almost certain she still loves me.
I tried to be so caring for her, and I was always there for her and we had so much fun and then this happens. Please help me on what I need to do, I love her. I respond to her interestingly; it gives me a self of calmness that maybe something I say will give her a little light in her dark world. But when she is alone she is sad and cries all the time. Then when he interacts with his ex, she will realize that he is now for his true potential as a man and is no longer the no hoper that she dumped, which will make her feel a renewed sense of respect and attraction for him. In May I was in the hospital and she waited 5 days to come see me.
After a few more talks we decided to part. Anyway, she then says she wants to scale things back, not be as intense, just have fun and be happy together. I need to find a way to grieve this out but in the back of my head I keep holding on to this tiny tiny chance. I posted my story here so I wanted to ask you about this because it hurts so badly. She gets made because I did not text her while she was in transit to find out how she was. I need to say something to him as at the moment Im trying to be 'normal' and smiley as if everything is ok when I know its not and Im scared Im letting this go on too long. Everyone else, even her best friends, still really liked me.
We can really only help if this is about depression. We are seeing each other all the time, some days better some other a bit stressfull. My ex cut herself three weeks ago and used to do it a lot in the past. I feelt like everything was fine. She said she was feeling ill, but if she felt better she would see me. We love each other very much but she has been dealing with major depression since her teenage years. The man may look like the love of my life but my love certainly is not the distant, unable to feel anything person I see in front of me.
He was so happy and motivated and things were very good the next week. Nobody I have spoken to can understand his actions but I know he just isn't in a place to be with someone right now. He never does the things he used to- affection or affirmation wise. After the breakup, he initialized no contact. The break has now turned into a full blown break up.
He is setting up a new love nest with a member of his staff! No wonder my girlfriend dumped me. The very next day he treated me like garbage, screaming at me for no reason while washing his clothes, slammed my car doors, swearing at me, being unappreciative and cold. I haven't spoken to her since ~tuesday and I'm scared she will for always be like this and never start talking to me again. I don't like to say for sure that this is the real reason but in reality it is most of the time, and even many times when the persons says they are very sure it's not due to someone else. I'm in a weird place where we're broken up i think so anyway but not really. I've listened to her all the time and I've heard everything of her. .
I was going to see send her a birthday card soon. The actions of constantly reaching out would make me think she still wants me once she's better? Everything is on the brink of ruin so small things seem huge. My boyfriend of around 7 months was going through a really hard time in his personal life, and I was his only caretaker throughout most of it. He disappeared for three months. I won't start a conversation anymore untill she does.
He refused all my attempts to help him, and pushed me away. I just dont know what to do. Look man you are going to be just fine, the birthday card was a classy touch, the space is good, have faith that when the counsellor talks with her, the man that she will remember is the way you treated her. The remedy is going to be practicing communication skills. It was the best feeling in the world.
He puts up with me at my worst, and I love him dearly because of it. Unlike last time he refused to see me in person, and he avoided me. His mom even had to drive to him one night because of how worried he was about him being so depressed lately. If she wants to talk she can talk to me. If I send her a message on WhatsApp she reads it in a minute. We had a really nice chat and were laughing and joking like normal, she said she's really been missing me and that she wanted to phone me on Sunday, but said she didn't know how I'd react.