Ok, cool, so everything is good right? I thought we had a good time…we sat together at the table most of the time, she asked me a bunch of questions, trying to get to know each other more. She texted me after 2 days thanking me for taking her out and for amazing time we spent. In order to become the guy more women are attracted to you may have to change. He wants to tie you down and have sex with you. The next day I apologized for my behavior. She came to me and said to me that she cheated on me, and explained the details even showed me her text messages! No reply received that day and the day after. I love her so much.
A persons needs and wants are multi facted. I told her and asked if she was intrigued. We even went on a trip. We have gone out about 4 times, in two months, because she has been busy with horse riding 6-7 days a week after work, but I have also gone to the past 3 of her competitions on the weekends so in total you could say we hung out 7 times. She agreed and told me she was excited. A week is a small sample size, but yesterday afternoon, and after the evening message to this morning is off.
Recently she has been busy from work but always made a point to text me or let me know how her day has went in the past. Its really cool you do that on here. Why is she blocking my number? I would appreciate if you can clarify this because I think you may genuinely want to connect with someone and made two attempts reaching out with no replies, at that point I agree with another blog you wrote which emphasize moving on. If she is nice to you and asks questions, she probably likes you. So now, I think my chickening out just knocked me off not just a chance to be more than near-boyfriend-but-not-really-close, but also as her friend.
This morning I texted her saying hi and still nothing. But this time, its her that is depressed and cries herself to sleep every night. Until she tells me she works late hours and hardly gets weekends off anymore. So when they broke up, which they were going to anyway, he got to fuck all her friends because they already knew they were having problems, and he was still being a gentleman, while fucking her brains out. Then we said we will go out again few days later, and we did.
So we decided to meet up but since she is a nurse, she is not always available in the weekends. Then next time when we met she asked me to join her with her friends for shopping and we had a very good time. There is no damn spoon. Anyway, my soon-to-be ex wife and I have agreed to see other people instead of waiting for our divorce to finalize. I hope you get this.
To this time it has been: 1 day and 4 hours since I text her hahah. And then through company email because I had no other contact I wanted to set up a precise date, and I sent her my phone number and asked for hers that we could reach each other on weekend. Coz of that we got into an argument coz she took it as offensive… but i apologized quickly. We met up at an ice cream shop right before her shift that afternoon and spent maybe 20 minutes chatting. But realize they are completely capable of thinking this way. Did I totally mess this up after two months, or will she come around? Could do with advice for both situations.
Do not contact her again until she contacts you. This is true actually, honest! A woman will only push away after its an obvious nightmare. Is that a good or a bad sign? Is there anything I can do apart from waiting? We talk the most, laugh the most and sometimes we touch every now and then with Some Tension is in the air. Once her friends arrive, I took off and she was surprised and askin my where am i goinn. It takes about that long to get all of that angst and separation anxiety out of my system. To be used for sex or only valued for sex is a terrible feeling for anyone. Then I texted her twice asking her out but she never replied.
She then got out the car and told me to get out and guve her a hug. So i texted her a day and half later and we were having good conversations and she was using a lot of smiles and later that night she randomly stopped again and never responded. Younger guys dont really know the art of the phone call anymore, and its so powerful. We saw each other, smiled and waved like everything was good. She prefers that over text. I have tried getting a date arranged but it seems like she avoids the conversation…. Later that night after all of that I talked to her again on messenger and I sent a message but she ignored it.
A few days later, I left her what I thought was a horrible, game ending voice mail inviting her to a concert. Hey Justin I met this girl over instagram and I followed her, she didnt follow me back though. She started flirting with me and made me dance with her and kissed me. After a couple of minutes she started grabbing my arm and mirroring my body language so i knew it was a score. I walked up to this girl and I gave her my number and told her she was beautiful because she was She replied thank you so much, and I walked away.